Attachment Style
Attachment style predicts how you handle closeness, distance, trust, repair, and conflict. This short form maps your default pattern across four attachment orientations.
Fearful attachment
Highest signal: Fearful (100/100). Lowest signal: Anxious (25/100). Average intensity: 63/100.
I can be close to someone while still feeling independent.
Conflict rarely makes me doubt whether the relationship is real.
I usually expect people close to me to be available when it matters.
I look for signs that people are pulling away from me.
I need reassurance when someone's tone or timing changes.
I worry that I care more about relationships than the other person does.
I prefer to handle emotional problems without leaning on people.
Too much closeness can feel like pressure.
I keep my needs private until I have already solved them.
I want closeness but hesitate to fully trust it.
When relationships intensify, I can both chase and retreat.
I expect people may disappoint me even when I want to believe them.