Test · 4 min

Conflict Style

Conflict style reveals how you handle disagreement: push, solve, trade, avoid, or yield.

Original PersonaGraf short form inspired by Thomas-Kilmann conflict modes. Not the official TKI instrument.

Conflict Style · result

Compromising conflict style

Highest signal: Compromising (100/100). Lowest signal: Accommodating (25/100). Average intensity: 50/100.

Highest signal100Compromising
Largest gap+50Accommodating
AlignmentlowAverage 50
CompetingDirectly pursuing your position in conflict.
+25
Self
25
Peer
50
CollaboratingWorking through disagreement to find a strong joint answer.
+25
Self
75
Peer
100
CompromisingTrading concessions to reach a workable middle.
-25
Self
100
Peer
75
AvoidingStepping away from conflict, delay, or tension.
0
Self
25
Peer
25
AccommodatingYielding to preserve harmony or meet the other person's need.
+50
Self
25
Peer
75

01In disagreement, I push hard for the answer I think is right.

02I would rather be clear than liked when stakes are high.

03I can stay firm even when others are uncomfortable.

04I try to understand the other person's real concern before solving.

05The best conflict outcome is often better than either side's first idea.

06I am willing to stay in tension long enough to find a better answer.

07I look for a middle path both sides can accept.

08Trading concessions is usually practical.

09Partial wins are better than stalled conflict.

10I delay conflict until emotions cool down.

11Some conflicts are not worth engaging.

12I leave tense conversations when they stop being productive.

13I can give ground to protect the relationship.

14I often let the other person have their way when harmony matters.

15Preserving trust can matter more than winning the point.

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