Test · 5 min

Date-Me Card

Most dating profiles describe who you are. This is closer to a contract: what you prioritize, in trade-offs, and what's genuinely a no.

Original PersonaGraf instrument — playful, not clinical.

Date-Me Card · result

The Stimulation Type

Top priority: Stimulation. You ruled out 3 dealbreakers — strongest signal is what you won't tolerate.

Highest signal100Stimulation
Largest gap-100Stimulation
AlignmentlowAverage 50
WarmthKindness, affection, emotional presence.
+25
Self
25
Peer
50
DriveAmbition, purpose, momentum.
-25
Self
25
Peer
0
StabilityReliability, predictability, calm in storms.
+50
Self
50
Peer
100
StimulationSurprise, humor, spontaneity, energy.
-100
Self
100
Peer
0
DepthSelf-awareness, soulful conversation, inner life.
+50
Self
50
Peer
100
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11Pick 3–5 dealbreakers — things you genuinely won't tolerate.

Pick 3–5.
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